Need advice 4rm guys or girls? adultery or not?

so i like this girl i work with. she is married going through a divorce. not knowing to much about whats going to happen between them two, or how long it'll be. i wanna let her know i'm interested but i don't wanna intrude in there life. so how do i let on with out letting on you know....well I'm single %26amp; if she is already getting a divorce is that okay if i go for it?Need advice 4rm guys or girls? adultery or not?
I'm kinda in the same situation. He's getting a divorce....I don't want to wait to let him know I want to get to know him. I do want to do the right thing though. It's tough!


I read the answer from the woman saying sometimes couples get back together before the divorce is final. That makes me rethink my position. I don't want to interfere in their marriage either. Thanks for asking this question!


I think as long as you let the person know you are interested...the ball's in their court. I'm not gona quit flirting with him though. :)





By the way, a few years ago I was seeing a guy who had been living with his gf for 7 years. They were getting ready to break up....he didn't use me as a rebound. He ended up moving her out of the house and moving me in the same day! We were together 4 years after that!Need advice 4rm guys or girls? adultery or not?
No, it is not okay. Wait until the divorce is granted and preferably finalized (6 months in most states) Give her a chance to get over the failure of her relationship before you start pressuring her to be more than just a friend. You will be doing both of you a favor. If you don't wait, you are risking (big time) that she will come to you because she needs the ego boost or the romance...and that is not what real relationships should be based on.





If it is meant to be, it will be.
No, the best thing you can do is be her friend until their divorce is over. The last thing you want to be is her rebound guy.... give her some time to get over her divorce first before pursuing a relationship with her. It's better to start off as friends and let that friendship grow into something more over time than choose to ask out someone who is probably quite vulnerable right now and who might regret saying yes to you later... good luck!
You should wait until her divorce is final. Sometimes people get back together before it's final. Save yourself some heartache and wait or move on.
no you should wait until her divorce is finalized and then even after that u should wait a few more months before you make a move
if she is going threw a divorce i doubt she will be willing to want to start another relationship right away.
well, wait until she's divorced, and then go for it.
of course y not? and i think u should tell her how u feel then let her decide ..but without pushing too much