Thursday, December 31, 2009

PLEASE advice!??!!? (guys help please, but experienced girls can help too)?

theres a guy, he knows ive liked him for a really long time. but we never talk anymore and dont have classes together. so how can i be friends with him again ?? it seems impossiblePLEASE advice!??!!? (guys help please, but experienced girls can help too)?
if you two used to be friends then you should talk to him on IM or myspace some about stuff you both like


or you could go over and talk to him at school some


just gradually start talkin to him again more and more


good luck! XDPLEASE advice!??!!? (guys help please, but experienced girls can help too)?
hmm.this is tough.try telling him that even though you like him you would rather be friends, than not talk at all.
Ask if you can borrow a pen and don't give it back till next week then go up to him and be like '; Im sorry I lost your pen, you can use this one tho '; and give him amarker o_O yeah im no crazy!!!!


orrrr


go up to him and ask hows 2nd semester? etcc and everytime you see him just say Hi


hope this helps (=
Just strike up a conversation with him and dont make him mad with in the next three days.
Play it cool. If he knows you like him then there's nothing else to do. I mean, go with the flow. Don't force yourself into his life. You know, say hi %26amp; bye when you see him. Join in convos when you have something to say.. But don't push too hard..





And if he doesn't come around, then screw him. There are sooo many other men in the world to waste all of your feelings on one.
You'd be surprised how small the world is. Talk to the friends you do have and see if any of them know him, or if someone knows someone else who might know him. If you remember anything about his ambitions it's a clue in the right direction. This is called networking (um it works just as well in the real world as it does on the computer, us 30 somethings do it all the time).





Here's a little challenge for a miracle. Stop thinking about him, and worrying about how you're going to find him. Trust that he will pass your way again, and keep your eyes peeled. Somehow these two things seem to work in a weird sort of way. You mention this dude to your couple of friends. Okay, and then ask them to see if anyone they know of knows him, and then you sit back and wait.
why dont you like text him


if you dont have his number


go to someone that does and be like


';heyyy do you have blah blahs number';?


it should work


and then he will be surprised when you text himm
text him or call him and talk to him and see if he wants to hang out some time
idk my bff jill?
Just try talking to him.


Call him on the phone


Or go someplace with him.
If you are friends with some of his other friends, then do something like throw a party. Invite your friends that are friends with him as well, and have them invite him. A party could break the ice. If you play games at the party, try to do stuff that involves having a partner. Plan before hand to have your other friends partner up or something and that leaves you two as partners.





Hope it helped! :)
tell him what's on your mind. there's nothing wrong with expressing yourself to someone. Next time u see him just say hi and try to carry a conversation with him, eventually throw in something like i never see you anymore, is there a good time we can talk some more? Would u want to?
Talk to him every chance you have and give him compliments not too many but enough to give him a friendly view of your self if he still ignores you just keep on being nice to him God will find a way if it is his will for him and you to be together
This happened to me too. Just call him with a simple question and start chatting. Get together for a movie once you feel re-united via phone. Good luck!
call him/text him/tell him that u want to catch up on his news and hang out. then see what happens. if he likes u that will let him know that u like him, but will also be friendly so u will not get embarrassed if he says he is busy. then u will know.
at lunch go up to him and talk.


orrrr try and bump into him in the hall and ask him if he wants to goo.....bowling....yes bowling with u and a few friends.
just go up to him and start talking to him again, odds are he feels the exact same way and he doesn't know how to approach you again.

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