I'm in serious need of advice guys ..?

You see iv been dating this girl for awhile around a year know


and these past 2 months have been insanely hectic. I'm only staying in the state to be with her. I caught her doing things with other guys these past 2 months i don't really want to break up with her but because i do love her. I need this relationship to be the most important thing to her. but i think its possible that its time to close the door and move on and leave the state your opinions and suggestions please!I'm in serious need of advice guys ..?
Yeah i think one more chance... gives you the time and the lesson on what is going to play out. She may surprise you and be !00% committed to making it work but is now shy, embarrassed or insecure herself. Maybe time apart will give you time courage and people to talk about it with but if your frightened of loosing her... make her see you love her and want to be with her forever... if she seems shady still dump her. She's a loser if she ***** up again...You deserve better from someone who has made that stupid mistake and didn't see i was blinded. It has been 2 years back together after 2 months apart to make me and him both be heart broken enough to realize... i need that person... They make my day... They are worth fighting for. I never thought i'd see him again unless he was with a girl or with a girl and kids and now it's us who have a 6 month old and we are happier and stronger than ever before. Yous really need to take talk talk about it. but be careful... she wont wanna talk too much. respect that. she's saving your feelings and her own shame and embarrassment by keeping it in. Best of luck hey : )I'm in serious need of advice guys ..?
Depends on what she is doing with these other Guys. If she is cheating on you, then I think you already answered your own question, time to move on. If she is just doing friend things with them and you don't mind it, then no harm no foul. If she is important to you, try having a good honest talk with her, tell her exactly how you feel and then give it another shot. It is all about who you are and what you can handle. Best of luck to you
You are a wimp, pal, and you are allowing this woman to disrespect you and use you as a doormat. This is not LOVE......is it Dysfunctional! You need to move on and stop whining about your life. Until you can get your personal life on track and do the right thing for you......you are doomed with one dysfunctional relationship after another and will never find personal satisfaction and happiness in this life. You are putting lipstick on a pig and you know and I know....it is still a PIG!!! Now go do the right thing!
m also goin through da same thng with mi boyfrend.wel not xactli bt pretty close 2 dat.mi advise is ask her 2 put u out of da misery nd dump u whch is also wat m plannin 2 du coz i luv hm 2 much 2 break up wit him.give it a try nd tel me hw it went.gud luk
You may love her,but if she doesn't love you move on. I think you already know that and you need a push. Well here is your push. Move on.
Did she cheat on you? Then you should move on. If you want to save the releationship you need to talk with her about it.
Leave her. Shouldn't be keeping yourself back from doing what you want to do. No girl is worth all that trouble.
Give her one final test. Arrange a surprise date and see if she cares enough to come. iF she doesn't, you should get on with your life. She isn't worth it.
If she is cheating, forget her and move.