Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Both Guys & Girls Advice Needed - How do I make this super sexy hot guy emotionally connect?!?

We've worked %26amp; talked together since last fall. However we live far apart (1hr). Only recently have we been able to see each other since off/on meetings last year. And when I saw him in person-Wow! I realized just how crazy I am for him and want to see him more. We're both divorced and neither of us want anything serious. However, I'm not a casual kind of girl - actually I've only been with one other person and I'm worried I'm just going to get hurt more and more every time I see him. He says he only wants to be ';Friends with Benefits'; but I know I'd never do to my friends what I plan to do to him!!! I worry this might be one-sided right now but I believe it's too early to truly read his emotions fairly. I need a bit more from him emotionally because I want to build something (slowly, but ) long term - I don't think he's thought much past the basics of getting by for now. Is there some casual way of approaching this subject with it being a big deal? Should I not worry?Both Guys %26amp; Girls Advice Needed - How do I make this super sexy hot guy emotionally connect?!?
i didnt even bother to read your lengthy explanation, sweetie you can't make anyone do anything, it's life love it or leave it good luck either way peace

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