I need relationship advice!!!!! (Guys and Girls)

So i met this guy about a year ago and we get along great well we have only been out together once and since then we have talked about everything. Its actually really weird how similar we are . I told him like three months into our relationship that I kinda liked him but he was just kinda shock awe flattered I don't feel the same way lets still be friends. So i stuck with just being friends and so far thats been great I dated two other ppl since and everything seemed ok. Until my b/f screwed me over and I went through the same thing that he did/ So we talked and got pretty close again and now I am really started to move beyond liking him to loving him .Hes a great guy and I hate that im dealing with terrible relationships when hes right here. But I havent said anything because he just recently started seeing someone else and I dont know what to do. I am still going to be his friend but its tough any advice? I need relationship advice!!!!! (Guys and Girls)
Being attracted to a friend is hard, especially when they aren't into you. If he wanted a relationship with you beyond friendship, he would make an effort. If the only time you get close is if he is single and you are single, and happen to make a move, it sounds like he's taking advantage of the situation.





Take it as you will, but a good friend, especially one of the opposite sex is very hard to find and keep. If it is meant to be, it will have eventually. However, I would continue as you are - date others, don't cry on his shoulder all the time in case he tries to get close again, and try to find someone who has similar qualities that he does.





I need relationship advice!!!!! (Guys and Girls)
That sucks man it does ,but just calm down and keep your emotions in check because the path you are heading in is leading you towards heart break. Don't let yourself fall in love with someone who doesn't even want to go out with you because trust me when I say this you will end up punching a hole in your wall saying why did I let myself go through that
If he doesn't like you, you can't do anything about that anymore. Just go on with your life and try to be busy with something else. For example your studies(if you're still studying) and strive hard. You just don't know someday he'll might notice you too. I mean like you or feel the same way too.
Just ask him how he feels about going out with you, or what he thinks about you? Honestly if he can't get close to you like you are gettin to him I would drop that idea cause your only gonna hurt yourself more...just remember, don't get your hopes up...I hope this helps
That does sound really tough.





You said you told him you liked him about three months into knowing him, so that would have been nearly nine months ago, right? You never know if spending time around you may have changed his feelings, so it might be a good idea to just talk to him about it. Tell him how all the bad relationships you're having really just make you see what a great guy he is and that you think the two of you would be happy together. Maybe he's just afraid of ruining your friendship, but he might like being your boyfriend once he's convinced to give it a try.





If you're too shy to be that straightforward, you could try just joking around with him about it.. You know, stuff like ';Why do I even date these losers when you're right in front of me?'; or the opposite, ';Why do you go out with all those losers? I'm right here!'; and see if he reacts positively. Maybe he's just too nervous to tell you how he feels, and kidding around about how nicely you would go together might be just the ticket to loosening him up a bit.





Good luck.. I really hope it all goes well.