Thursday, December 31, 2009

Give me advice...guys or girls:) thank yah!!!?

so there's this guy at my school.....we've started talking and i found out that he really likes me. As time has past, i hav realized that i really like him too! but the problem is is that he is two years younger than me. ill be in highschool this coming year, but he'll still be in middle school. the other problem is is that i may be moving next year which means i couldnt see him anymore....what should i do? i really like this guyGive me advice...guys or girls:) thank yah!!!?
In this day and age, it's easy to keep in touch. Get his email address, keep in touch with him. I am older than my husband. What you will realize one day is that it doesn't matter what age you are....except like if he was 5 and you were 25, LOL!! If you really like him, don't worry about his age, worry about his maturity level. Give it a shot.Give me advice...guys or girls:) thank yah!!!?
lol i have a close friend who REALLY, REALLY likes this guy 2 years OLDER than her. he duznt like her back becuz he thinks tht ppl will make fun of him 4 like a girl 2 years yunger than him. i feel if u like him and he likes u, u shud go out. wait untilu move next year and if u want u can break-up or u cud have a long-distance relationship with him. u cud video chat and IM, be friends on facebook and myspace and twitter, u can call and text or u can break-up and be long-distance friends! :-)


I Hope I helped! Good luck. i hope everything works out!!!


xoxo,


peacebaybay
hey baby, i feel for your problem and there is a simple solution which i (43) and my better half (29) have always known of. age is nothing but a number. it is in no way or form a limit on who you like or love. i know you girls think it is but no it's not. you in high school and him in middle school means nothing in 2 yrs he will be in high school too. the only problem is when your 18...lol he's not!! at that point you will have to wait for him. you say you might be moving? how far? ya know you will be driving some time in the next cpl yrs so if its not far you can drive to him. in any case, if you two really mean it with your feelings you have to fight to make it work. now granted if next yr you have to move half way across the country its gonna be a differ ant problem but deal with that when the time comes. maybe if people see your interest in him and have real feelings they might think twice about moving.
Um... well ask him out. Or just stay as friends. So what if theirs an age difference. And remember if you do move that you could always call him (or text depending on if you have a phone). I found out the other days that one of my friends moving next year and I'll just keep in touch with him. But ya... take a chance. And even if your relationships don't change, you can always stay good friends. Hope that helped.
wow that sucks. I would just be friends with him if you are moving far away. My boyfriend goes to St.Johns school in Fenton and I go to Fenton Middle so we go to different schools and still date ( but we live in the same town). I'm moving to North Carolina in the summer. I haven't decided what to do either. It's not a problem if he's younger or you go to different schools but if you live far far away you might want to call it a friendship and be done with it. Sorry. :(
Would you regret it for a while if you never took a chance to see what could have been? If so, ask him out. You still have the summer, right? You could have a lot of fun hanging out with each other and who knows what kind of friendship you two could develop. If it's not a big deal and you think you would be embarrassed by him when you go to high school, then don't do it because you will hurt him. But there is nothing wrong with him being younger than you, so don't let that stop you. Good luck with whatever you decide to do!
1st thing first, age is just a number. If you really like this guy, you shouldn't let that concern you. I would go ahead and give it a shot, even if you're moving next year, because you never know things may not work out for another year, you guys are only middle schoolers.
Don't do it... not because hes young but because your moving out. If you guys go at it for a year and he realllllllly likes u and he begins to have feelings for u, then thats a problem. Your gonna move out without him knowing and hes gonna have his heart broken... and since hes so young, he will be lost, confused, and depressed. Itll hurt him a lot, trust me, just dont do it ;/
As others have said... don't worry about the future. Don't be unrealistic, but it's OK to date someone younger. Ask you parents - odds are they aren't the same age (though that isn't certain). Trust me - you'll regret forgetting him entirely.
we are so young. there are billions of guys out there. you have the rest of your life to worry but if you two like each other, go for it. your fortunate enough to both realize it, so why waste time. have fun and live like there's no tomorrow. :D
get his number so you can text. get a IM so you can instant message. get a web cam so you can talk to eachother. get his address so you can visit one another. are you moving extremly far away?
Honestly I don't think you should do it.


Two years is kind of a lot. Not considered so much after college, but definitely in the middleschool/highschool days.


And if you're leaving in a year...


or MIGHT be. It'd still be better to wait.
Do you goto parteys and get drunk? That's how I usually get with girls. But there's other ways:





1) cinema


2) non drink party


3)ask out in school
my friend just went out with a 6th grader and got really made fun of i am not trying to scare you just want you to know, and if he realy like you and you really like him y the hell not?
if it necessary to find someone loves you in the same school??? .. or even in the same town?! .. meet him everyday in any other place away from school .. also call him 1000 times aday if u want ! .. chat with him .. it's easy!
Go out with him who cares if ur moving or w/e or if u would be embarssed to go out with him cuz hes 2 years younger then find a guy ur age :) GOOD LUCK!
sorry but like schools almost over and your too young to be worrying about all this especially if he is 2 years younger ! dont worry you'll get over it
heyy im a guy


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if someone older likes me then i would love to go out with them


soo...


i think you should ask him out :)
age really doesn't matter. get his number. talked to him a lot and ask ur parents if u can sometime visit back to see him(if u move). if u really like just ask him out and keep in touch with him.
worry about today... not next year!!


have fun now... if it lasts it lasts if not then you will move on.


Its not like you two are gonna get married or anything!!


stop stressing :)
You and I have the same picture thing except yours has brown hair and mine has blond. =P
ask him out to the movies.
date and if things don't work out/you have to move.... then try long distance or break up. you won't know unless you try :)

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