Basically, I just need some help to improve in this area.Girls and Guys, any tips/advice on how to hit on girls?
tell a girl she is beautiful
and ask her for her #.
Don't say something that
isn't true,
lying is bad.
Girls don't like liars.
Don't just go for a girl because
you think she is hot.
Spend time getting to know her,
most girls value that and if they
don't then they aren't looking for
anything major and are just going
for looks or money or something fake,
not the real thing.
When you ask a girl out just be genuine
and since u [hopefully] know something
about her by then take a good guess
at where she'd like to go on the date when
you ask her so that it isn't awkward or
open-ended because if it's open-ended
they might just say yes to be nice and then
it might never happen because there wasn't
a pre-planned time and place, ya know??
You don't have to,
but if you'd like to answer my Q
I put one up too.
Good luck!
=]Girls and Guys, any tips/advice on how to hit on girls?
I hate when guys ';hit on'; me, just come up and start conversation. Start by complimenting her, ';Excuse me but i just wanted to tell you, you have a beautiful smile,'; i love to be complimented, and it's harder to be mean to someone that compliments you and is sincere than some guy that comes up to you, calls you baby, or some other STUPID name, or uses some cheesy pick up line. Also, don't follow her...if she's stopped somewhere, like in line, or sitting at a table, fine! But i hate when i'm walking and i know someone is behind me, following me, trying to make a move, its kind of creepy and annoying.
Well you gotta be sure to respect yourself as much as you do them. Dont put them on a pedestal of course. Generally though as far as hitting on women you gotta be attractive first, so try to fix your image if you have an issue with it. If you cant fix it or whatever continue on with understanding the basics of any friendship. You want the person you are talking with to value you. You gotta find the best things about yourself and bring them to the table without bragging. Well with any friendship once the person actually starts talking with you and the ice is broken or whatever the next step is to try to understand the person and joke and be comfortable with someone. Once the girl is attracted and comfortable then you just gotta lay some mad moves on her like touching her once you feel comfortable yourself to do that. Other than touching of course just asking for her digits or asking her out to hang out with some of your friends or on a date works just as fine. Ultimately you gotta think of her as if she was anyone else and not let her get away with any crap that may push your buttons. Girls will push your buttons to test you wether they realise it or not. It goes to the normal thing of just being yourself and enjoying the moment.
well i don't know about other girls but i don't like to be ';hit'; on. that's a turn off for me. if you want to ask out a girl or let her know you like her just be honest with her. don't try any pick up lines or have a friend talk to her for you. you have to do it. that's what my boyfriend did he just came out and said he wanted to be with me. now we are going on 2 years and have a son on the way. just think about what your going to say to a girl. but don't try to show off. good luck.
...... ^_^ don't be honest
LOL he said how to ';hit on girls';
studies show making outrageous lies make them more attracted to you stuff like ';ya I play drummer in a band'; or then ';wow you so beautiful your the only girl I couldn't take my eyes off of';
ANYWAYS
ALso be Confident, stand with really good posture, don't slur your words and speech as if you own the place and her, make sure you smell GOOD, not what you or your mommy thinks but what other girls think smell good, keep your hair looking perfect and your clothes looking sharp, pick colors that go with your complexion,
ALSO ^_^ HUGE TIP if you want her to obsess about you make sure as soon as her eyes get all sparkly and interested you tell her you have something MORE important to do and leave her ^_^, she'll give you/ask for a number, DOn't be the one to ask. this makes her think she wants you.
You can IM if you want to ^_^ OmniChaotic
if you want more in depth tips ^_^
ok
well i like it when guys aren't to pushy but you can tell that they like you.
Like i like this guy and i think he might like me. If your like around my age group 9th grade, then i can help you. if your old, sorry. but here u go
so i like it when guys hug you. it lets you know that they care about you and there might be smething more then just friends.
the thing alot of guys at my school do is take out there phone and are like 'look at my new phone' or 'look at the huge scratch on my phone' then they ask to see it, then normally, they just put there number in it if there interested.
but thats how it works at my school
or if u are in high school, homecoming is coming up.
either maybe ask a girl to homecoming, or if you cant find the right one, maybe go to the dance anyway and find a girl thats single. that should be easy, and start dancing with her.
thats how i started going out with my last bf.
Idk.
if ur not in highschool and ur like old, then sorry that i sent u this huge long answer for nothing.
good luckk =]
if something is falling out of her pocket (specifically the butt pocket) but it back in for her.
if you sit next to her in any classes, steal her pens/pencils/erasers and maybe even take them home with you. it will give her a reason to talk to you. or she will grab at your hands during class to try to get them back (she will touch you).
those are just a couple things that i think work.
ok. first off, dont be jerkish or degrading, that will definatly turn the girl off. just strike up a conversation about something neutral, like music. just be sweet and very gentleman-like, and make her laugh! girls look for a man who will treat her like a lady, and she will definatly fall for you!
Start by not trying so hard.
And don't come off too strong.
No one likes that.
I wouldn't call it ';Hitting'; on a girl, that just shows you think it's a game.
It's not a game..
So you mean compliment them..
Tell them they have %26lt;insert pronoun here%26gt; eyes.
Avoid words like ';hot';, it's somewhat derogatory, in my opinion.
Broaden your vocabulary..
Relate to them..
Listen when they talk, don't stare at their chest.
Be calm
Don't push sex
Be understanding
show interest, be confident (but not overly confident), try and make eye contact, smile, talk to her but don't be a sleezy type of guy. Be interested, make a comment about something.
';the band playing is really good';
';wow the place is packed tonight';
see hows he reacts if she shows interest then keep the conversation going.
good luck!
be really flirty but dont overdo it and seem interested in what shes saying when u talk to her, make her laugh, throw out a compliment ONCE OR TWICE about somethin small. hope this helped [= oh make the first moves n keep makin majority of them 1st
well i think that becoming friends with a girl first always gives you a safe zone to get to know a girl and get her trust you be a little flirty and i think that you will be great in the dating world
girls like a good personality. be nice and sweet, become friends with that special someone. then ask them out or tell them your real feelings for them, but dont wait to long they may just say ur too good of friends to date.
if you see a girl lookin a you, the best thing to do is just wink at her. amd im a girl and i think its hot when guys do tht ;)
Be funny. xD Make her laugh. NEVER TREAT HER LIKE A STRANGER. Even if you met for like... A few minutes. Treat her like you knew her for years. xD
FLIRT YOUR *** OFF AND MAKE HER LHFAO! Be nice and courteous. =D
flirt, smile ,accidentally bump into her and walk away =]
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be confident, but not wallowing in your own ego.
and also: eye contact is key. no one wants a guy that cant even look someone in the eyes during a conversation.
Here are some things girls like
-whisper in her ear
-touch her hands
-compliment her looks
-laugh at ALL jokes
-always smile
-etc. etc. just do these and make it obvious!
Be yourself. Girls like that. Instead of a big lie that will lead to nothing. Hope this helps. :) And good luck
Be confident in yourself, and the girls will come.
You : ';Hi, whats up?'; ';Want to go see a movie/ get some coffee?'; If turned down: ';oh, thats ok no problem';
Just act like an @sshole. That seems to be irresistible to girls.
be nice and sweet.
and be yourself.
and if she needs help help her..
lol.
have fun so she enjoys being with you.
thats all i got..lol
Leave the poor girls alone. Can't you just leave them be?
be honest.no pick up lines.
be honest say ummm i like you and go from there
depends on how old you are!
details please!
';Hi, my name is ____. what's yours?';
tease tease tease..treat her like u would treat your annoying lil sis.
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