Please l need ur advice guys?

there is this guy l went out with for few days and he started being funnny if l call him he says his busy or dosent answer my calls so after that me and my ex we started talking to each other and we started dating again. all of a sudden this other guy he start phoning me saying l must give him another chance telling me that he was in trouble and he didn't want to get me involed. so l don't no wht to do cause my boyfrnd is married but he dosen't stay with his wife. but my boyfrnd help me a lot everything that l have its him. l don't stay with him. please give advice wht to do .one l dont no wht to do cause sometimes l think me and my boyfrnd we don't have future a cause he is married but they don't stay together and the other guy how can l trust him after wht he didPlease l need ur advice guys?
you are a homewrecker.Please l need ur advice guys?
Well you are not married. (which places this question in the wrong catagory) Also I think that you are pretty screwed up in the head if you stay with either one of these guys. I believe that they both are using you for what I assume is sex and if you dont get your head right, then you will be sorry in the end.
Drop the married boyfriend. He'll never leave his wife for you, and even if he does so what? He'll just end up doing the same to you.





As for the other guy, he is probably calling you because some other girl he had on the line decided to cut bait. I'd drop him too.
first of all you knew there was somethig weird about that guy so u couldve had more patience of waiting, but u rushed alot,


and ill give you some advice even if a married man is not living with his wife for any reason or so it doesnt mean you have to fit in. do u know how low u are by doing this.


put your self in her shoes what would u do?
Honestly? Well, I think that what you truly need, is to get away from both guys.


You need to take some distance away from both of them to be able to see them exactly the way they are.


One the one hand, there is this guy, having troubles so bad that he chose to dump you to protect you??


This sounds pretty scary and dodgy. What type of troubles was he in? what type of people does he hang out with?


On the other hand, there is this man who is married.


Now you are not saying that he is separated. So, is he? and what is the reason? Any chance he might reconcile with his wife?


In which case, you are totally wasting your time and heading for heartache. Hardly something to look forward to and someone worth seeing.


So, somehow, probably those two guys are neither what you need in your life.


I think that you need some ';me'; time and see if there's something better out there for you and by letting yourself be available, and let these two guys do their best to show YOU that THEY deserve you.


That's your best bet.


Good luck hon!xxx
Wat the hell if your boyfriends has a wife what the hell is your problem go back with the other guy give him a chance you can always do what he did to you. ur current boyfriends might even have kids if he does.... Step BAK
You and your boyfriend don't have a future because he's married?


You think??


Life becomes very hard when you defy common sense.





Do not date a man that is married.
Can you say, ';**** Him';....
you are a jewel and you should not see anyone that doesnt treat you as such. give them both the boot realize who you are and that you will not accept anything less than to be treated with the respect you deserve
Wow you got a whole mess of problems. You know what you should do is stop going out with the wrong guys and stop making excuses for them. Get rid of your ex you have no loyalty to him cause he's married so you don't have to worry about him. This other guy probably isn't that great either. If you don't trust him don't give him another chance. You need to get rid of these guys and start loving yourself first.
get a new man all together
give em both the f l i c k!
You just need to back away from everything you got going on in your life and start heading in a new direction if not you are gonna be in some serious ****
I don't like either of them. I think you're right about not having a real future with the one who is married. I don't think that's fair to you. So I would try to end that one. As for the guy who wigged out I would stay away from him too. It's a tough world out there but a few good men still exist. If it were me I'd keep looking. But it's up to you. Good luck whichever way you decide. : )
After what he did? What did he do that was so bad other than realise he missed out on a good thing. That's a guy you want. Crawling back on hands and knees.
about the married guy:


-Dont try to make out a relationship with him. He's MARRIED. If he has any kid(s) it will be for the best that u either stay away from him completely OR just be friends with him. Bec if you dont, u'll be the scumbag of the year in ur neighbourhood.


about the other guy:


number one, he seems like a total stranger. its like u 2 needs to communicate more and learn more of each other. I totally understand what he's been going on about his problems and doesnt want u to get involved in it. It may be because of another girl. If thats the case, I bet he's going to use u as number 2!! which is quite annoying. If its not, then he needs a little bit of cuddling lol. But just to be sure, dont rush into relationships.


Remember, relationships are like Death Rows, once u get into it, the way out of it is like suicide.
There are a lot of choices in today's world. Sounds like both of these guys are a little mixed up about what they want with you. Since you have more choices than you mentioned, why not utilize some of them. Date someone else also. There is plenty of time to worry about what you want in life, and neither of these guys seems to be giving what you want or need from what I have read so far.
Take a step back and look at it from the outside.. If you step back far enough you'll see that neither of these guys are/should be an option! Make a fresh start, raise you're standards and forget these two! You really need to see that you deserve better!