been asked out today we swaped phone numbers. but i'm scared because i just came out of a relantionship and he hurt me. how do i know this one won't be the same?Love life need advice guys/girls?
Not all guys will hurt you! Go into the relationship willingly. But if you dont think you are ready to be in one, give your self more time.Love life need advice guys/girls?
We learn from our mistakes and therefore in the future can recognise the possible signs that will mean that this new guy might hurt you.
Just be wary; go into this relationship not thinking about the past. You have the present and the future ahead of you; all you can do is learn from your past, but try not to dwell on it. Not all guys are jerks like your ex was.
Hope you are well and hope you have had a good xmas.
At first, you will have no idea if this will be the same as the other one.
You need to first SLOWLY get to know him, trust your gut feelings when you are with him and make sure you over analyze about him. If you get one weird feeling that reminds you of your ex get out of their, because us girls are almost always right. But if he seems to be a descent guy in the beginning, all you can do is trust.
It is extremely scary getting out of an abusive relationship, but what you got to realize is that all guys aren't the same. There are good ones out there!
Good luck!
鈾?Melonie
I hear what you are saying but just because one person hurt you doesnt mean that the next will do the same. Besides, the guy that hurt you is winning simply bc you are still holding on to the pain of being wronged. He is still making you paraniod of others who may be the right one. Forget about him, let it go and enjoy your date tonight/tomorrow. In any event, I wish you all the best. Happy holidays and good luck!
why dont u tell him exactlly what you told us
and just take it slowely
good luck
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