Advice - Guys? Girls?

Okay maybe this is me being selfish but I asked my boyfirend to hang out with me as it is a friday night, now we have been going out for 2 years and I know he loves me but I can't help but feel a little hurt when he leaves at 7:30 on a friday. I only see him one day a week and apparently 3 hours is plenty? am I over reacting? Now I understand he is a very busy person and we are both only 19 but it still stings a littleAdvice - Guys? Girls?
communication is the key. You guys need to work this out together. sit down and talk with him about it. if he cares about you, then he should take time to discuss about this with you.Advice - Guys? Girls?
it sounds like you guys really dont get any time at all to hang out i think you should try seeing other ppl for a while ';take a break from the relationship'; for a couple of months
you need to ask him why he can't be with you longer than two hours. and you are too young to be losing so much time over this. sorry but he doesn't sound too committed
wow...this is just like on parentol control(on mtv)


well the girl left her boy cause of that...


If you never see him what is the point?


You really need to talk to him about this...or it could get worse =[





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Why did he leave? Where did he go?





If you only see him for a few hours once a week, it sounds like you two need to have a talk, especially if you're not happy and you're feeling neglected.
I would think that you would be more than hurt...seems he's want to spend as much time with you as he can as you only see each other once a week...three hours then he has to go because he's busy...You should really wonder about who else he is spending his time with and who it is he is getting busy with other than you. Don't lock yourself into some impossible illusion...if he's not spending time with you when he has the opportunity, he's making time with someone else. Eyes Wide Open...Best wishes to you.
i dunno! sorry but i actually thought about it!!!! i promise!!!!
You need to understand he has a life of his own,not just with you.Being 19 you should have one too.You need to hang out with your friends more just like he does.Yes your over reacting,but not that much.I think the two of you need to have a sit down talk and find a way to spend time with each other as well as spending time with your friends as well.When you do that you'll see that things will be OK.
Sounds like you're one of many.
You guys are just 19.... how busy can a 19 yr old be... does he show he is eager to meet you atleast for those few hrs, that once a week...if not there is sumthing wrng..... anyways make sure u dont crunch his space.... his frnds must be imp for him so he leaves u.... talk it out
when a guy is interested in a girl he will find time to be with her, sorry to say, he may be involved with another
where is he going on friday that you are not welcome to go with?
i cannot believe this believe me hun you are not over reacting if anything your under reacting .i would have kicked his *** to the kerb.im only 18 but whats the point of being with someone who puts limits of time on the realaionship.you want to spend your time with this man beacuse you enjoy spending time with him and like having fun with him. i see my bf 4 times a wee and between that he phones me. we are not really serious but he is my bf and as well as having fun we talk to eachother about our days and get to know eachother. i wouldint care how busy he was if he cared for me surely he would make time out of his busy schedule to spend time with me. you cannot say that ia m wrong. i know how hard it can be to discuss this with your bf so just sit him down and tell him how you feel.im sure hell understand waht your saying and you can arrange to spend more time with eachother. let him know your feeling a little hurt.. just think if you told him that you were busy on a friday night to hang around you would spend no time together. if he says he cant make any more time for you im sorry to say this but id let him go.the rlationship could never be taking any further basd on a tree hour visit on a friday. by the way you are certainly not selfish and yes you should be hurt. just remember theres plenty of fish in the sea and my man who goes to college and has a job can spare 4 nights a wek to spend with me im sure your busy man can make time for you.. all the best with your bf and i hope you get what you reall want
From the way I see it, no you are not over-reacting. It sounds to me like you are way more into him then he is in to you. That isn't right regardless of how old you two are. If I were you I try to find someone who wants to spend time with you or see if talking to him about the way you feel might work too. But things can't stay the way they are, it isn't right. Relationships are a give and take equal partnership. Anything short of that isn't worth you trying to make it work because in the long run someone is going to get hurt. Hope that helps, Good Luck!!!!
i have no idea wut u just said..................
You are not being selfish. Three hours a week is way too little. It sounds like, after two years, he's gotten complacent, and used to you being there all the time. Talk to him and tell him how you feel. You deserve to be more than an afterthought.
be calm
NO WAY!!! Oh hell no!!!





C'mon after two years and he's still doing that? If he's so busy, where is he going that he can't take you?


Sounds like he's up to no good. Girl, the best remedy is to not be as available at his every whim. Do your own thing, tell him you're having a girls night out, see what he says? Fight fire with fire.





SPY on him! What is he up to?





You are not over reacting!
may be u can ask him to give up just alittle more free time to be with you, because if he loved you he would understand what you're talking bout.just dont spend to much time with him or you guys will start to get tired of each other, you're probably saying no we wont but yeah you will ive seen lots of relationships end that way. so just be alittle careful.k? myour friend inez!!!!!!!