Friday, January 8, 2010

Need Some advice!! Guys answers wood help!!?

I am a 26 year old recently divorced mother of one and I am currently in a new relationship for the last 4 months. I feel like I'm new to the dating game again. The man I've been seeing seems to be a great guy most of the time. but every now and then we have a evening where we totally clash personalities. When we talk about it he'll say that it's just every now and then he gets frustrated and down and sometimes just wants to be alone( for the night). He also has a child that he has all the time. So I'm just wondering if this is a normal thing or what. When he's in a good mood things are great. Like I could totally fall for this guy.Need Some advice!! Guys answers wood help!!?
I would not worry about it. I do the same thing to my girlfriend, sometimes it is just better to be alone and sort things out or let off some steam. It does not mean that he cares for you any less. If you think that you could fall for him go for it, you must take the bad with the good.Need Some advice!! Guys answers wood help!!?
The important thing here is to destroy the dicotemy that men and women are separate entities. While popular culture wishes to build a division, arguably embodying ';weaker'; emotions with women and building men up to be ';stronger';, guys have emotions too.


It seems as though he might have some depression. I, too, suffer occassionally from minor depression and feel the need to withdraw for a night or two. However, if he is in any way dragging you down or dwelling in his emotion, then it is not just mood swing as much as it is a subtle attack against you. Some guys will try to manipulate women with mood swings. I would focus on where his emotion is applied; if it's inward and almost seemingly modest, then it's more of a depressive nature, while if it's brought out constantly in conversation and action, it might be an effort to draw attencion and take advantage of your emotions.





that's my take ;)
I once had a boyfriend who said every now and then that he ';wanted to be alone'; ....i found out he was seeing someone else those nights. what I would do if i were you the next time he says that is say okay...no problem...then check up on him. drop by his place that is what I did and low and behold he was not alone.
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