I would not worry about it. I do the same thing to my girlfriend, sometimes it is just better to be alone and sort things out or let off some steam. It does not mean that he cares for you any less. If you think that you could fall for him go for it, you must take the bad with the good.Need Some advice!! Guys answers wood help!!?
The important thing here is to destroy the dicotemy that men and women are separate entities. While popular culture wishes to build a division, arguably embodying ';weaker'; emotions with women and building men up to be ';stronger';, guys have emotions too.
It seems as though he might have some depression. I, too, suffer occassionally from minor depression and feel the need to withdraw for a night or two. However, if he is in any way dragging you down or dwelling in his emotion, then it is not just mood swing as much as it is a subtle attack against you. Some guys will try to manipulate women with mood swings. I would focus on where his emotion is applied; if it's inward and almost seemingly modest, then it's more of a depressive nature, while if it's brought out constantly in conversation and action, it might be an effort to draw attencion and take advantage of your emotions.
that's my take ;)
I once had a boyfriend who said every now and then that he ';wanted to be alone'; ....i found out he was seeing someone else those nights. what I would do if i were you the next time he says that is say okay...no problem...then check up on him. drop by his place that is what I did and low and behold he was not alone.
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