I have been seeing this man for about a month and half, he is sooo confusing. I really like him and he has talked about long term with me etc, told me many times thats what he wants, he says he is looking at forever. He has said he loves me twice. I have yet to say it. but one night he may be like this the next day he is kind of cold, and distant. he is like an emotional yo yo. why is this? is he pleying mind games with me or what? we are both adults, both divorced.Guys, some advice please?
its only been a month or so give him time .....for both of your sakesGuys, some advice please?
He probably doesn't want to commit to anything.
I dont think he is playing mind games, he is distant because its a defense mechanism, or maybe its his nature and he is warm with you because he feels comfortable. He said he loves you twice, the direction this relationship goes next is up to you, you can say you love him, you can say you dont and it ends or he waits. Or you can lie and in time develop stronger feelings.
He may be into control. The question to ask yourself is: do you wish to be controlled?
I also predict that he will continue to ';yo yo'; independent of the length of the relationship. Is this something you want, especially his ';cold'; side?
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