so, my ex and i are good friends. we go to the same college and he stops by my work and sees me. well, i pushed to hard for an answer one day and it made things wierd between him. and i stopped pushing so hard. but he is my best friend and i love talking to him. but he is so busy with work and homework he doesn't call back. I know this sounds like he is not interested and you are right. he isn't. but now the most important to me is our friendship. i could care less about us dating. i want our friendship to grow. how do i get him to know that is all i want? and how do i stop the need inside of me to talk to him everyday. because that is what we did somehow we would always talk everyday. help me, how do i stop the need of talking to him when he doesn't call back. Be nice please i don't need any smartalic answers from people please, i am hurting enough.Alright guys, I really need advice. guys and girls.?
The easiest way to mend a broken heart is cut off what is hurting it. Put all your pics of the 2 of you up, don't throw them away, put them somewhere that when you feel up to it you can look at them again. If you have a myspace page remove all the pics and comments of him or by him. And most of all stop calling him by doing that all you are doing is delaying the pain because when you go home you still don't have him and you need to allow your heart time to heal and it can't when you do that. Think of it as a scab it hurts and iches you scratch it knowing that it will bleed again and then you have to start all over again in the healing process.
And most of all remember that you are a good person and you will find someone else.Alright guys, I really need advice. guys and girls.?
i think your trying to hard. for some reason your a little paranoid. i am of the opinion your smothering the friendship. so why don't you back of a little. he as he studies and the like. why don't you talk to your friend about the situation. any way i wish you well. good luck.
maybe he thinks in the back of your mind if you get to talk to him everyday, that maybe you want to get back together with him, so that is why he is keeping his distance. How about talking about other girls to show him you're not interested in him that way anymore.?
Friday, January 8, 2010
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