My boyf called me up drunk the other night and asked me how many babies i want to have...? guys - advice pls.?

he also said 'i really really really like you, you know' and rambled on about other drunk stuff. then fell asleep.





then when he called me the next day he started the conversation with 'ahh, yeah, i was really drunk, i can't remember what i said - sorry about that.'





should i tell him or leave it...? i'm tempted to not mention it because i think it's kind of cute he said that stuff and i don't want him to feel awkward.





guys, some advice pls...





thanksMy boyf called me up drunk the other night and asked me how many babies i want to have...? guys - advice pls.?
Never bring up drunken babble unless there was something serious (like ';i cheated on you';, ';i have a problem';, etc).





If I were you, and taking into account that often alcohol brings out the truth in people, chalk it up to him being drunk but he does actually ';really really really'; like you and may see a long term future with you.





But yeah, I've done that and I was called out on it. Now she was just busting on me, but it was embarrassing. Drunk Dialing can be dangerous..lolMy boyf called me up drunk the other night and asked me how many babies i want to have...? guys - advice pls.?
Do not create an embarrassing situation for him.


Most of the people have more guts to say things they normally wouldn't when they are sober.


But that's somewhat great.


The guys sure cares about you big time!!


And babies!! Wow, that's a serious and long term relationship you got there baby girl.


Enjoy it, and tell him he said many beautiful stuff and that you are happy.


He is probably afraid he told you some nonsense stuff.


Calm him down.
He was drunk......i got arrested and put a cell for the night for being too drunk. Thank yer lucky stars you dont have a boyfriend like me.
ah the drunk love phonecall to the woman. He remembers it for sure he is just a bit embarassed. guys get all soppy and upset sometimes when they are drunk. take it as a good sign he wants to express himself to you-even if he is dribbling bs.
Haha....I would tell him if you want to. Probably won't affect or bother him either way since he don't remember anyway. Some people just have to learn the hard way. One day his drunk verbage will overload his *** !
what he said is really cute as you say. if it seems natural to tell him what he said do so, but not otherwise as it might make him feel sheepish to have put his feelings so much on display.
Forget it, like you said, he was out of his head .
yeah, don't bring it up.
Alcohol releases a person of their inhibitions and in some cases makes a person say or do things that they normally wouldnt do. We really cant say if your boyfriend really meant or did not mean what he said. Saying something like that would be embarrassing for myself if i said it to my girl so you can understand his immediate reactions the next say. My advice is simply have a talk to him about it and see what he says
well tell him,he will not remember it so tell him
Yes, When a guy is drunk, He usually starts to ramble on about random things.


But in your case he is talking serious issues such as children, He is telling you how much he cares for you, He is being considerate towards you.


This obviously means he has had thoughts about having kids.


I would not mention it at this point in time, I would let him ponder the thoughts if he was really ';thinking'; about having children and then he will come out and say it.





Thanks
Just leave it, he doesnt remember and at least he called you and not somebody else.
Not good if he drinks so much he can't remember what he said.
just leave it. if he can't remember then why should you. right?
Just look at him and say 2.
Well how long have you been together and how old you guys are... if your 20+ then its sorta a cute thing, but if your under...i would say hes is horny.


For the time being leave it and itll be a great thing to pull out when family is over just to embarrass him.


Im just going off that you did like the fact that he called you and that he is a nice guy...


When im drunk im more likely to tell the truth so, its what you make of it....


hope that did make sense, im really tired haha
He remembers...he just doesn't want you to THINK he knew what he was doing! Tell me you weren't a little turned on by his saying it?! Women are notoriously nurturing and attracted to motherhood...he played his hole card, now the ball is in your court!
He knows what he said and is just trying to backpedal so that you'll drop it. Or, maybe he's afraid of what you'll think. Either way, he remembers the conversation.
I would just leave it alone. He was drunk and drunk people are not likely to really have accountability to what they say. Mostly just funny stuff that they are going on about. It was, technically, his fault for rambling, so he should not be embarrassed...but I would still just forget about it unless he asks specifically for what was said. And even then, make sure to tell him that you knew he was inebriated and that he was rambling out of his drunkeness.
Leave it - except for a little playful teasing of course...
he knows what he said he is hoping you wont bring it up so dont
it sounds like he was all drunk and sentimental.. kinda cute because it means at that time he was thinking about you and him being together as a family.. however.. learn now that drunken dialies are not a true predictor of things to come..! i would tell him what he said.. it would be interesting to see his expression! keep it light!
Be forth coming. The truth speaks volumes, if you don't or lie it could drive a wedge in your relationship. Hopefully, him feeling awkward might be the worst of it, but if it is maybe he will feel more comfortable in confiding in when he is sober too.
He remembers..being drunk..oh easy way out..
He was drunk so he probaly didn't mean it. If i was serious then ask your seft how do you feel about him and do you wanna take it to that level
yeah i would ust leave it to nothin you can do about what he says when he drunk