Since then he's been really cold and I feel he doesn't want me like before.
I apologized a lot and I promised I'd do my best. I know I need to do much better. I'm really trying hard but it's so hard to fix myself. So first, how can I change? How can I stop RUNNING AWAY FROM MYSELF? I really love him so much and I need to fix this. Advice on self-improvement please!
He's been so down that he wanted to break up lately but we decided that I'd try a little harder. I'm trying to create some motivation for him to make him want to fight for us but I can't figure out anything.
So, HOW can I motivate him?
PLEASE ANY ADVICE FROM MEN!How can I motivate him to fight for our relationship after I've hurt him? I NEED GUYS' ADVICE!?
I believe the easiest person to change is oneself. Review some of the conflicts you have had in the past. Do you think you were possibly wrong with your opinion? If you were right, would it be so terrible to let him have his beliefs that are not in concert with your beliefs? But you also don't want to be agreeable if you honestly don't believe the way he does. Allow yourselves to be friends with different points of view. That can be a richer and longer lasting relationship. But also know your boundaries and never do anything you feel could be unsafe. If he is the right guy, he will respect your differences of opinion and your social boundaries. If this relationship doesn't work out, that might be for the best. Widen your scope of vision - the best guy might be right around the corner.How can I motivate him to fight for our relationship after I've hurt him? I NEED GUYS' ADVICE!?
if he doesn't want to fight, you can't make him.
All you can do is think back to what made him so interested in you in the first place. What is it about you that make him smile. And perfect this to the point that the bad moments seem to fade.
But one person cannot save a relationship, even in good relationships it takes two trying as hard as they can to please the other to keep it exciting and new. If you have been with him this long you already know his desires and dreams. Be creative, use your Imagination more, what can you give him that no other can even begin to do for him? Good luck with your choices.
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